This letter was written on paper from Young's Hotel, Boston, dated Sept 30, 1894. It is addressed to Miss Edith Peck, Norfolk, Connecticut, Litchfield Co.

My dear Edith:

In accordance with my agreement, I write you concerning those plans on which (you justly argued) a more accurate knowledge was desirable. We are all at Young's today. Just had a very swell dinner: in a magnificent private dining room. I indulged in Cream of Asparagus, Broiled Turbob, etc etc with Pistachio Ice Cream.

Now my dear, I had understood that my father would allow me, say $ 500.00: and my plans were being arranged so as to give us, and more especially you, as much pleasure as could be gotten for keeping within our limits. I had thought of the South, the West, or even a short run across. But my folks have said this: that Papa and Mama realize that after marriage we may be kept more or less economically for some years: and unable to see much of the world: and realizing the breath and culture, and intelligence which may be derived from travel, they are anxious for us to have a trip which may be a pleasure at present, and a recollection for life: hence, propose to offer me this: a trip abroad, for a term of not less than three months at least, and no restrictions upon expenses, except that I use prudence, and do not imagine I am Vanderbilt or Astor. Now this would mean - say a run to Italy, possibly Egypt, France, Germany, Switzerland, England: and what other lands we found our time permitted: for it seems to me we would better enjoy through seeing of a half dozen countries, than a mere flying trip to all: but all this you and I could settle as we crossed the Atlantic, or plan as we went, staying in such places as we liked. Now if this does not hit you as pleasant and you would prefer some other journey, please do not hesitate to say so: and we will arrange it. But in case you are agreeable, it will be safe for you to consider it settled, and plan your dresses and coats accordingly. Things in Europe are cheap: but they all stick Americans, especially green ones like you and I who have never "wandered from our fireside."

We shall both want to buy, in Italy, a suit of solid silk underwear, stockings, and gloves: and if your folks pony up anything, you can get a pretty Paris cape. I confess if I pay my bills, I shall be happy. My dress suit is a gerri?. It is way out of sight: lined throughout with extra Surals? silk: even inside of vest with white silk. We shall start between December 13" and 20": as boat sails: and until then I expect you to stay at Mrs. Smith's. See?

A word as to our wedding. Mama offered to fit up rooms here, and do everything to make it pass off in unexceptional style, yet quiet: but I hated to have Alice and Frank (and Mattie?) and Charlie, etc here, for I saw things were assuming the proportions of a large affair: and it seemed foolish to come here and yet start from New York. Our latest suggestion is here: you and I and Papa & Mama go down alone to New York, the day before: be married very quietly say at my old pastor's (Harres), then pack up and next day they see us off on our boat. And they will look after all cards too. Now I leave it in your hands. At present let us speak to no one: should any unforseen event during the next two months present this, it would be better not to have it common talk.

It seems sure, D.V.I can only say, if you feel disposed to show any pleasure, do so by trying to spare yourself all extra work - as - planning secretly to wash: packing other folks goods alone (hire some one to do Frank's packing: I will pay them) and housework. I don't see as you need do a thing but make your bed. I think you may find ability to walk half a mile useful in Rome or Paris: and wish you had controlled yourself

Write soon to Your John.

Letter transcribed by Vergie Barber DeAntonio June 30, 2000

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